Fortunately, keeping a man despite the distance is possible, you just have to put things and put in place little tricks to make your love last, despite the miles that separate you.
Keeping a man despite distance by laying the groundwork
The most important thing when a relationship starts to be created is to lay the foundation of your relationship.
First of all, you must be certain, both of you, to want to continue to be in a relationship despite the distance. If one of you thinks that it would be better to take a break, it will not work. You can even set goals if the distance is needed when you are already in a relationship: yes you still want to be a family later, so yes, you will try to get closer to each other as soon as it is possible.
Positively, And Positively AGAIN!
Laying the groundwork will not act as a magic formula to allow everything to go well and that the distance is not badly experienced by any of you. In order for things to be at their best, you will mostly try to see the situation on the positive side. Yes it is true, it is not easy to be separated from the person we love, not to be able to take it in our arms during a moment of grief. Yes it is true that it is going to sleep alone in the evening and the same in the morning when getting up. But a remote relationship also has advantages.
At the level of your couple, in addition to not suffocating you, the distance allows you to find yourself.
This reunion will always be a moment of joy, pleasure to find (finally!) The man you love.
Your reunion will be an opportunity to totally dedicate yourself to one another, to cut you off from the rest of the world if you want to just enjoy the other and the time you are given. And this is a time that you will appreciate especially as you know the rarity. The distance is so positive! Choose to look at this side rather than another.
Do Not Lose Touch!
One of the most important things for your remote relationship to work is not to lose touch with each other. You have to keep talking to yourself, doing things together. If the new technologies do not make things simpler, they offer you new ways to do it, allowing you to choose the one that suits you best, according to the times and according to your preferences. Telephone, sms, mms, applications, mails, postcards, letters and other postal parcels are all possibilities available to you. It’s up to you to seize it, use it wisely and use it to surprise your man.
You must also do things together. Does this seem difficult or impossible at a distance? Think again. The distance does not stop you from sharing moments: both sit in front of the same movie on TV, read a book each from your side at the same time, cook the same dish at the same time. Use the webcam to feel even more like being together, make small challenges like “the most beautiful presentation of a dish”. These moments can be done of themselves when you do not have much to say to you but they can also be the object of regular appointments to punctuate your life of couple. It is not because you are at a distance that you can not invent your own rituals. They are necessary for you to keep in touch.