Don’t tell him these 2 things, otherwise it will be hard to maintain your happy marriage

If you want to live with your other half for the rest of your life and want your family to be happy, it is wisest not to say these two things.

1. Don’t say anything to hurt your husband

Most women always hope that their husband is a talented man who makes money. However, life has ups and downs, sometimes he earns a lot of money but sometimes he also faces difficulties.

When a man loses, many people not only do not comfort their husband but also laugh at him, making the other half feel uncomfortable and even want to escape from the marriage.

My friend and her husband came together with love. When they were in love, they were both very sweet and happy, but after getting married, under financial pressure, their feelings gradually fell apart.

My friend’s husband works hard every day, but his salary is not high, and he cannot give his wife the full life she wants. Every time he comes home, he is very tired and wants to sit and rest for a while. But my friend did not give him this chance, constantly mocking her husband.

Because of this, the couple often quarrels. One time, my friend even scolded her husband: “I have never seen a man as incompetent and useless as you.” Just like that, the two divorced. My friend thought that getting a divorce would lead to a better life, but now she regrets it immensely, but it’s too late to save her life.

In marriage, a smart woman will encourage and motivate a man when he is at his lowest point, as well as care about his feelings. She will try her best to help him out of trouble, constantly giving him confidence.

If you only know how to complain, criticize and blame, men’s self-esteem will be hurt, making them hate marriage even more. Not only that, the relationship between husband and wife will become increasingly fractured and on the brink of breakdown.

2. Speak ill of your mother-in-law in front of your husband

It cannot be denied that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a big problem, living together in harmony is not an easy thing. Once dissatisfied with their mother-in-law, many women speak ill of their mother-in-law in front of their husband, wanting him to defend her and demand justice for her. They think there is nothing wrong with doing so, but in reality this is a very foolish behavior.

Even though you are his wife, your mother-in-law is the one who gave birth to him. If you put yourself in your husband’s position, if your husband always spoke ill of your mother, would you accept it? If you can’t accept it, why force your husband to accept it?

Therefore, if you want to have a happy marriage, do not speak ill of your mother-in-law to your husband. Only then will your husband not be awkward when standing between love and filial piety.

One more thing, if your husband quarrels with his mother-in-law because of you, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will probably be even more difficult to harmonize.

Therefore, a smart woman will not speak ill of her mother-in-law, or force her husband to choose between his mother and her, because they know that doing so will be harmful to the marriage.

Instead, they will know how to adjust and keep a distance from their mother-in-law to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, making the husband awkward.