1. Sometimes things just don’t work out.
Sometimes things just do not work in this life and there is nothing wrong with that. The fact that you have tried is more than enough. Your efforts will not be unexpected.
2. We’re all insecure about something.
We are all worried and it’s not because someone looks perfect that you see that they do not see anything completely different in the mirror. We find all the worst things about us and that really kills us. We all have things that we want to be able to change for ourselves and that never really go away.
3. We all make mistakes.
Nobody is perfect in this world, we make all the mistakes and we have to correct them all. Nobody can do everything perfectly with every attempt. Sometimes you have to work on something for a long time before doing it properly.
4. No response is the clearest response of them all.
While waiting for an answer, it can be difficult to accept the truth. If someone does not take the time to answer you and ignore you completely, take the hint. This person is not interested in how she or he originally said they did it.
5. Things are not always what they seem.
Sometimes things seem to be exactly the opposite. Life is crazy and never happens as we suppose. If you can not learn the full story, maybe you should not judge.
6. You can be happy all on your own.
Happiness is not something that is found in others. It is something in which one builds and learns to cultivate well. You can not just expect luck to hit you in the face. That’s not how it works.
7. True friends are not as common as we tend to think.
Although you may be surrounded by people, you do not necessarily have many real friends. True friends are the ones who are there for you when you need them the most. They are the ones who stay with you when the weather is worst. Most will not be able to meet these criteria.
8. Time literally flies by, and we have to make the most of it.
We do not have much time. Although we can live for years, tomorrow is never promised. A whole year can pass in an instant.
9. You are the only person in charge of your life.
You should never live your life for other people. You have only one life and it’s a life that you think deserves to be lived. Make your own decisions and stay true to your nature. At the end of the day, you are the one who has to live with the things you have done or done.
10. If they really wanted to, they would have already done it.
If they really wanted to be by your side or to accomplish something, they would have been. We can not sit together and wait for each other forever. The will to give up is sometimes a very important part of everything we call life.
11. Other people’s opinions do not define you.
The things people say or think do not define you. You are your own person who is able to write your own story. Do not let others hold you back.
12. Holding grudges doesn’t do anyone any good.
You should never harbor resentment. They do nothing but weigh us down. We are so heavy and broken in this life that it makes things worse.
13. There is nothing wrong with cutting out toxic people even if they’re family.
Sometimes we have to separate ourselves from poisonous people, and in many cases, these poisonous people are also members of the family. Do not feel bad if you have to leave them behind you. They did it themselves, and if they really cared, they would not have been so toxic.
14. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
Sometimes we can not see what the people around us are living. It’s not because it’s like everyone is together and able to do or get what they want. We are all unique in our own way and everyone faces different things in this life.
15. Life is unpredictable at best.
No matter how hard you try to control what happens to you, life will always be there to get you through a loop. This never happens exactly the way you want and changes can happen overnight. You should be aware of it.